Problem Solving #2: Giving The Answer
How often are you giving the answer to others? Leaders usually have deep technical knowledge and skill in their area, which is great until that slows down their total performance.
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Problem Solving #1: Not Fully Understanding The Problem
It’s easy to jump in and want to get going when there is a problem to solve…and over time, this approach tends to hurt more than it helps.
Home Runs or Base Hits
You’ve just learned something new…now what? Now it’s time for action, to put the new information to use. This short video highlights how effective leaders take what they learn and begin to apply it. This helps them transition from conceptual knowledge to practical skill.
#8 of 8 Surprising Habits That Block Your Influence
Accountability has gotten a bad rap because it’s been misused so often, and misunderstood even more. When you don’t practice regular, healthy accountability with people, you’re letting them off the hook. You’re really telling them “I don’t care about what we agreed to” at best…or “I don’t care about you” at worst.
#7 of 8 Surprising Habits That Block Your Influence
How often do you hear someone ask, “did you do X? Did you do Y? Did you do Z?” Bad questions are a MAJOR way you block your own influence. A big pattern you likely have is asking yes/no questions. When you use yes/no questions, you’re literally encouraging the other person to give you a yes or a no. This limits their input into the conversation, and with enough Y/N questions, people will get frustrated, or confused.
#6 of 8 Surprising Habits That Block Your Influence
Our whole lives, we’ve been rewarded for having the right answer. The kicker is that when we work with people…there is no “right” answer, there are just answers. When we think we have the right answer, we’re sending the message that others are wrong, even if we don’t intend to. This triggers resistance in others, slowing down our immediate influence with them, and creates problems for our long-term influence as well.
#5 of 8 Surprising Habits That Block Your Influence
Have you heard the saying Selling Past the Close? That’s Habit #5 of the 8 Surprising Habits that Hamstring Your Influence and I am so guilty of this! Selling Past the Close means the people have already said yes, or they agree, or they “bought in” to what you’re saying.
#4 of 8 Surprising Habits That Block Your Influence
In your next meeting, listen closely to the people around you and I’ll bet you hear, “I think we should” or “We need to” multiple times. You’ll also see some head nodding or a quizzical look, yet no specific action is taken, no clear decision is made – because these words don’t mean anything.
#3 of 8 Surprising Habits That Block Your Influence
If you think that influence means persuading or convincing others, you’ve got habit #3: misunderstanding influence. This all-too-common mindset accidentally perpetuates mediocre performance and frustration.